I have always thought that people live two lives at a time...The first one is real..the truth..and the other one is imaginary...an illusion yet so loved....The real life is kinda harsh...coz u gotta deal with things that are not in your control, situations forced upon you irrespective of you want to be in them or not, meet, interact and stay with people whom you simple never want to be part of your lives. Of course this doesn't mean that its all bad bad..NO...it has its moments of joys, success and sorrows. You have you loved ones with you....which add sugar n spice to your routine...
The imaginary life on the other hand is the world created by you...the mind to be more precise..There is no entry for sorrows and downfalls here..All it contains are the scenes that your mind creates and your loved ones who enact in it with you...Like a goody goody movie scene..A smile automatically comes when you think of this world...like a cool sudden breeze in desert...you can see "The Real U" just by peeping in here...
So is everything going smooth ? The real fun starts when people whom you want to be in your created world refuse to accept you in the real one..And all those moments, all those incidences all those memories you wish to create with them suddenly seem to fade up...you so wanted to save them and make them happen in the real world...but all in vain...you dont get the proper response from the person you wish to be with...it hurts alott..really...why this happens..well its a mystery...
And my mind is bugged with since a few days...it revolves in a circle and asks me the same question how could that person do it...why...?
Lemme know if anybody has the answer...waiting for it....desperately....
bhaiya....coz the person has really changed...!!!
ReplyDeletewell amey you have ans urself chek it out wat u said remove d work y? wat you will find is the ans. the best thing to do is to let go buddy. not goood for dat person but goood for yu as wellll. free urself frm all d things thats not workin as per ur desired choice and move on. life is wonderful and have so many things to gift you then y to seat back and wait for that imaginary thigs to ahpen? dont get carried awya by life. u lead ur lifeee coz bosssss. u r the boss here and stop soundin like looser coz i nw u r a grt man and a grt person i ahve faith in you u have to hav the same in you to overcom ur probs just decide and you wil c d magic. LASTLY- ITS ONY YOU WHO CAN MAKE YOU AHPPY OR SAD NOONE IN D WORLD CAN GIV YOU THE SOURCE IS IN U SO BE HAPPPPIESTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT LOVE YOU BUDDDDDD
ReplyDeleteI may be the last person to comment on this one but the fact would always remain that the one person who u really wanted in ur imaginary life was really never worth that place .... Move on Go Ahead..... U have a lot many possibilities to explore.If the person never respected the place you have given to him/her then that person is not really worth that... So as Dhruti said LEARN TO LET GO.... Im trying myself to do that , Lets hope we both succeed :):)
ReplyDeleteVishwas
you are this little kid who is so innocently open about what goes on in your mind. :)
ReplyDeleteI like that... and dont change.. adulthood actually stinks :P
well in spite of being one of those stinky grown ups.. i du not have an answer to ur question. I, simply have learned to live without people... and wud suggest that you dont take that as a solution from me :)
Love,
Shambhavi
( No one is actually that important in your life... )
Hey, reading ur blog after writing a similar 1.. guess we both r in de same phase in life. I wudn give u ne advice. Its upto u ameya may be these r de situations in which we get to knw who r actually meant 4us right??? LIFE SUCKS accept n just move along :)
ReplyDeletemil
same situation happened wid me as well,, bt we cnt run away frm real world ,, we cant run away frm responsibilities,,if it happens >it was meant to happen,, if nt it wad nt goodfor u ;) ,, move on ...
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